The psychoanalyst Erik Erikson coined the term ‘generativity’, defining it as ‘a concern for establishing and guiding the next generation.’ At Tilt, our mission is to educate people about how to leverage character strengths that shift behaviors from being divisive and polarizing to integrative and sustainable–both of which are elements of generative culture. Simply stated, generativity ensures that a person or institution is concerned with the well-being and success of future generations (and the world as a whole) in a sustainable manner.
We all know people who are the opposite of generative. One example of a behavior that impedes generativity is being dismissive of others' opinions and dominating discussions to win arguments at all costs. Behind this seemingly authoritative behavior lies a subtle fear of the loss of control that is often driven by a hidden fear of vulnerability. In such behavior, energy is focused on satisfying one's own needs and avoidance of unconscious fears and the uncomfortable feelings associated with those fears.
We often think of aggressive behaviors as the most egregious, but passivity is equally destructive when it comes to generative culture. Someone who seems like a caring, nice person and puts others first might be doing so for self-serving purposes that are less obvious. Behind these seemingly selfless actions may be a subtle fear of conflict that is disguised by seeking approval and acceptance. On the surface, they seem to be nurturing, but also have an ulterior motive that is ego-based. Niceness can be less about working for the good of the other person and more about feeling better about ourselves. As Dr. Aziz Gazipura's book ‘Not Nice’ points out, ‘Being nice does not come out of goodness or high morale; it comes out of a fear of displeasing others and receiving their disapproval.’
While there are times when being protective is important to get our needs met or avoid getting taken advantage of, it is dangerous if we constantly, or even frequently, show up that way. This is especially the case if we are not very self-aware and conscious of such inner motives.
When we at Tilt refer to character strengths, we refer to a person’s ability to choose and embody a variety of strengths in a balanced manner, neither over nor under-using them too frequently. Once we master the full set of 12 specific character strengths, we can choose to transcend our ego needs and behave in ways that serve not just ourselves, but others too. When we leverage our core strengths in the service of a mission greater than ourselves, we are truly generative.
Let’s have a closer look at the twelve character strengths!
Openness
When we are open, we can quickly sense new ideas and trends and can be adaptive to changes in the environment. We can then employ childlike curiosity to interact with the world in open fascination and maintain interest in continuous learning.
Inspiration
When we become great at inspiring people with our stories and ideas for a better future, we can cultivate purpose and hope in others. We can use our imagination and creativity to think of novel ideas others have not thought of and to communicate them in a way that inspires hope.
Creativity
Being creative allows our imaginations to invent a better future for the world. We can come up with novel ideas that help solve complex problems and generate solutions that benefit future generations.
Confidence
When we feel confident, we can champion what is best for all, becoming a catalyst for justice. We can protect the weak and conquer the oppressor with passion, driving equity. When truly confident, we drive results and take actions that change our community for the better.
Boldness
When we are bold, we can explore the uncharted path that others might be too afraid to conquer. This keeps us active and engaged in testing boundaries or engaging in new adventures. Boldness also allows us to provide the necessary willpower to support those who are less comfortable taking risks so that they can make bold moves.
Integrity
Having integrity means we operate from sound ethical standards to ensure fairness for everyone. We look for social justice and express our convictions with a passion so that people can live in a world that ensures justice for all whenever possible.
